Question:
About Protien and Hunger

Ok, I have never done the protein thing. I was two years out on 4/24 got pregnant at 8 months out after wls and now have a nine month old son. Honestly, i never did the protien thing and have done fine without it. I seem to alwasy be hungry. is this normal? I have always drank with my meals, i have to. I am such a thirsty person. when i was a kid they though i had dehydration all the time and diabetes (cant figure that one out) because i was constantly thirsty. I still drink with my meals, and i dont plan to stop because it seems either way, i am still hungry. when i wasnt so far out, i could drink with my meals and feel full just fine. but now either way (because i have tried not drinking with them) i still get hungry! what is going on here? if this is natural, then i have no worries, but if it isnt, any ideas?    — squeekypete (posted on May 17, 2008)


May 16, 2008
I have always been a big water drinker too and especially with meals. I remember drinking my glass of water at a meal and then drinking my mom's too. Then on to diet life, they always said to drink lots of water, fill up on water, eat your allotment and fill up on water. Now my surgeon tells me not to drink 30 minutes before a meal and for at least 1 hour after because water liquefies the food eaten and makes it pass out of the stomach too fast. He says that for the brain to really get the message that you've eaten enough, the food needs to stay in the stomach for about 45 minutes. This allows the message to be repeatedly sent to the brain so we finally "get it". Wow, this is going to be tough. Anyway, I figured that would be a really hard habit to break the habit of drinking with meals so I started practicing a couple of weeks ago. (I have RNY 5/28) I just don't have a glass at the table at all. Not having the water has done a couple of things. Sometimes it makes me chew longer. Sometimes I realize I need to cut my food smaller so that it can be chewed more thoroughly. What I have really noticed is that I don't get hungry as quickly and that almost exactly 1 hour after a meal I get really thirsty, so I don't forget my water. What I thought would be really difficult has not been so bad after all. The surgeon told me to eat the protein first as it is thicker and provides a bit of a plug that keeps the rest of the "meal" draining more slowly from the pouch. You have food in your pouch longer, your brain gets the message repeatedly, and you won't get hungry for 4-5 hours. I encourage you to "do the protein thing" and not drink 30 minutes before and for 1 hour after your meals. Try it for a week. What could it hurt? I wish you success. Being hungry is not fun whether it's true hunger or head hunger.
   — waterlover

May 17, 2008
Without "doing the protein thing" and getting pregnant, there was a strong possiblity you could have had issues with your pregnancy. Protein supplementation, or making SURE you have a diet very high in protein is imparitive to a long healthy life. Protein is so important, and although you don't state so, I'll assume you had RNY surgery. Drinking before and after meals is important so you gain maximum nutrients from your smaller meal portions after surgery. That's the reason NOT TO DRINK some 30 minutes prior to and after meals. While eating, I may take a sip of water to clear a taste from my mouth once or twice, but this is only an ounce of water. I think a strong reason you seem to be hungry all of the time is that you're washing most of the food from your pouch by drinking so much with meals. This is probably what's going on in your situation. DAVE
   — Dave Chambers

May 17, 2008
Hey Stephanie....Since you're over 2 years out and I presume have lost a significant amount of weight, then I assume you're doing something right. First of all, as I understand it, water doesn't stay with you (in the pouch) for any length of time, regardless of whether you have food in your pouch or not. Liquid (any kind) will just flow right through u. The point about not drinking while you're eating if for 2 reasons: it washes the food through your pouch faster, thereby making you feel less full AND it also washes it through to your colon faster thereby gettingn less absorption of nutrients....I guess it compounds the malabsorption that is already in place. Being thirsty all the time is certainly a problem...as well as being hungry. Based on your letter and that fact that you "never did the protein thing" I'd have to say that could be the reason you're hungry all the time. A piece of chicken or any kind of meat fills me up WAY quicker and stays with my a lot longer than when I eat spaghetti, or mashed potatoes or any kind of carb/sugar food. I doubt that everybody needs the same amount of protein....and maybe you're getting more than you think. But long time lack of proteing can lead to serious malnourishment. But for the hunger pangs alone, I'd recommend eating some meat before you eat other food and see if that satisfies you more. Good luck.
   — cjjordan

May 17, 2008
Everyone said basically what I would say too...You have some bad habits and silly excuses for these habits. You only hurt yourself with this attitude. I'm sorry for being the strong hand here...but if you don't want to cause yourself problems later, if not sooner...you need to follow the pouch rules. Everyone told you why not to drink water with your meal...There is also the possiblity that you did stretch your stoma by placing heavy water on top of food and forcing it to stretch...That would leave you hungry and eventually may cause you to gain weight. Dense, lean, protein will fill you longer than anything else. (As long as you don't drink with it) Eating carbs that are not complex is probably what you are doing since you say you don't eat much protein. Carbs make you crave more carbs and you will begin eating more and more each meal to satisfy that craving. Your instestines LOVE bad carabs...Makes your gut so happy and later GASSY! Tell me I'm wrong! ;) The less carbs you eat, the less hunger and cravings you have. I'm not trying to be mean...I promise, I really care about my WLS siblings! It's a lifetime committment and I hate to see anyone struggle or hurt or live in constant fear of gaining weight. No one can help you if you to refuse to help yourself while asking for help...So forgive me for being totally blunt and honest...You have a little baby and some 18 years to get thru to watch him grow into a man...I want you to be healthy and ready to be a healthy thin, amazing mommy and one day a grandmother that can run and move to play with her grandbabies...But you have to commit to taking better care of yourself now!!! Right this second!!! You can wait 30 little minutes to drink water...If I can...you can and trust me...I have a really hard time too. I even set an alarm when I feel like I might cheat. If I am REALLY thirsty...I eat a little piece of fruit ...like a few grapes or strawberries and that helps a whole lot to get thru the 30 minutes. I sometimes try to stretch it out to 45 minutes just to train myself to be even stronger. Get in some good protein! You are at a point now where things get harder to maintain. You better take control now. Good luck and hugs...
   — .Anita R.

May 17, 2008
The diabetes thing is hard to answer for because if you have had it since you were a kid it is unlikely that it is type 2 (adult onset diabetes) but more likely type 1 diabetes which is an altogether different beast. It could still be type 2 depending on the circumstances, either way, eating unrestricted carbohydrates is NOT a good program for you. This is probably the reason you are so thirsty all the time. This is one of the SYMPTOMS of diabetes and high blood sugar levels! If you were to get your blood sugars under control, you would find yourself to be LESS thirsty! I know, I am or WAS a diabetic. I have had the Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy and not the Gastric Bypass like you but the weight loss surgery has turned my disease around and as long as I follow the STRICT dietary guidelines put down my my NUTRITIONIST of eating a certain amount of PROTEIN and CARBOHYDRATE with each meal and NOT EXCEEDING those amounts, I have NO problems with my diabetes! Even as a Strict Vegetarian it is possible to get the protein that you need to meet the dietary requirements. I was a Strict Vegetarian for over 20 years until I discovered that I was allergic to almost all of the beans that I had been eating as my primary source of protein. I would highly recommend that you speak with a Nutritionist that is familiar with weight loss surgeries and then follow the advice given by them to help alleviate your blood sugar problems and thirst issues. You may also want to speak with a physician to see why you are thirsty all the time. You may need to increase your dosage on your diabetes medications. Let me preface this by saying that I am not a medical expert. I am just a weight loss patient. I was taking 70 to 80 units of insulin daily and 4 pills of glucovance 5/500 prior to having the Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy performed on me on the first of March. In only 3 WEEKS I had to DROP all of my diabetes medications! It didn't happen all at once. I kept gradually reducing my dosage as needed until I was down to only ONE pill of glucovance. Finally at the end of 3 weeks my blood sugar had dropped down to 53 points in one day! I HAD to stop taking ALL of my diabetes medications! My blood sugars after a meal are now running about 113/140 points which are a little high for NORMAL but are still in NORMAL range. With the advent of MORE weight loss, I should get closer to normal blood sugar levels. I also suffer from FibroMyalgia, Arthritis, Migraines. Chronic Fatigue, Spastic Colon and Chronic Diarrhea. The Spastic Colon and Chronic Diarrhea have been resolved by the surgery. the FibroMyalgia, Arthritis, Migraines and chronic Fatigue have all been improved to one degree or another by the surgery and the resultant weight loss. The Arthritis was relieved almost completely almost immediately. The FibroMyalgia has not been fully resolved but has improved significantly. The same can be said for the Migraines. My Chronic Fatigue has GREATLY improved. I have MUCH more energy now than I did before. I have lost 61 pounds since March 1. My surgeon and my physicians are looking forward to watching the improvements in health as I lose the weight. I have done some research and posted it on my Profile page. You can find it at http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/hubarlow/ . I hope this helps, Hugh
   — hubarlow

May 17, 2008
Hi there...I just want to stress the importance of protein. I know that you think you are doing fine without it, but long term you will suffer. I have a friend that is 4 1/2 years post op RNY and she has been sick for a long time because she stopped getting enough protein in her system. She thought she was "fine" and never made the connect that is was due to her lack of protein that she was sick. She was even put in the hospital. Now she has to push protein. And as far as the drinking while eating, the liquid can push the food through your system so you aren't getting all of the nutritional value from your food. Just try to avoid drinking thirty min before and after your meals. Good luck to you!!
   — Mary G.

May 18, 2008
In a word: PROTEIN. Protein is what sticks with you and helps control your hunger the longest. Drinking with your meals simply washes the food, protein or otherwise, on through.
   — corky1057

May 18, 2008
So many misconceptions about importance of protein. Needed bec ause we are unable to absorb the amount we need with limited small intestine. Without eating it your body will take protien from your other organ tissues- like your heart and lungs!Usually the reason behind not drinking with meals is it dilutes your digestive enzymes that we have such a small amount of so you can,t absorb if not digested- and many many times it causes great pain to drink with food especially in the first 6 months. But there is a difference in surgeons as to how much of the small intestine they bypass which is where you absorb your nutrients. That is why you are suppose to chew your food so well- it gives you ahead start on the digestive process- alot of swallowing by itself helps too- your saliva has agood amount of the digestive juices left to you.
   — Cdavis226

May 19, 2008
I think that you are mixing up diabetes insipidus(DI) and diabetes mellitus(DM). DM (also referred to as type 1 or type 2 diabetes) involves insulin/blood sugar and is what most people mean when they say "diabetes." DI is not related to blood sugar, however the symptoms are similar. The main symptoms of DI are excessive urination and excessive thirst because the kidneys are unable to concentrate urine so most of what is drunk is urinated before the body can absorb it. People with DI continue to urinate whether or not they are drinking, thus dehydration can be a big problem. If you were having dehydration and excessive thirst when you were a kid, most likely they were referring to Diabetes Insipidus. In your post you say "i never did the protein thing and have done fine without it" and follow it with "I seem to always be hungry." Right after that you say "I still drink with my meals..." and then follow that with "i am still hungry." Are you really not able to put these things together or are you just being silly? When you weren't so far out, you were able to drink with your meals and feel full just fine... that's because your stomach (aka "pouch") was smaller then. It held less and emptied slower. But pouches enlarge/stretch over time and two years after surgery, you've got a bigger pouch. It holds more food and empties faster than before. Drinking will speed it up even more. I'm guessing that between my response and those of others that you have figured out what the problem is and how to fix it. If you are totally lost on what you ought to be eating at this point, get in touch with your surgeon, doctor, or nutritionist to help you. I took a quick look at your profile... you've got an adorable baby. He's only 9 months right now, which means that he's going to need you around for years and years. Please take care of yourself.
   — mrsidknee




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