Question:
OMG!!!! I'm so confused!!!!! sleeve or Rny
I have to chose one...research research research that all I've been doing this past week in my free time. Some people say the RNY is horrible and no way to live..some people say it's awesome and would do it over again. I want the Rny.. I have already failed at the band and I am scared that I will fail at the sleeve because it just rescriction. Doc says the sleeve is safer when doing a revision...I have two kids and I need safer...but this is my last shot at surgery and the insurance paying for it...i just think I'd do better with the Rny...SO CONFUSED :0( — SWESTMOR1 (posted on June 24, 2010)
June 24, 2010
Hi. I had the RNY August 2008. I am very happy with it. Yes, there are a
ton of restrictions but they all have restrictions like you have never
"had" to follow before. If I had been able to do the Sleeve, I
would have tried that without a doubt because I don't think it entails
taking all of the supplements I need with the RNY. That is what I was
told. However, my insurance would not cover the sleeve because it was too
new for the insurance companies to approve. In spite of that, after having
the RNY, I do not regret a day of it. Yes, it is a tough adjustment but
then so are the results of any of these life-changing surgeries. Look into
the supplement requirements for the sleeve, think long and hard and keep
asking questions. No matter what you decide, good luck to you and God
bless. Kathy
— KathyStarling
June 24, 2010
I understand your confusion....but you said it yourself you think YOU will
do better with the RNY. If you need to have the threat of dumping and your
weakness is sweets or fats. Then that might be the best for you. As you
know there are risks with any surgery. Are you used to taking vitamins
already?? If you are then I wouldn't worry about absorbtion issues. I had
RNY and my DH had the Sleeve. Both are wonderful procedures but only you
know YOUR eating habits/weaknesses. I think its great that there are
options available. Go with what you think is best for YOU. Are they going
to take the band out for a couple of months and then do the other
procedure?? I don't know that much about revisions but maybe you can talk
to your surgeon again about the risks. Good luck,
— ToniLee
June 24, 2010
I know my honey is having a revision from a failed lap band to RNY in
August... and I believe the surgeon is planning to do it all on one day.
The removal of the lap band is apparently usually not a complicated
procedure.
As for which surgery, it is a very personal decision... other people's
reasons may not be your reasons... but I'll tell you I chose RNY because of
my BMI. I was "super-morbidly obese," more than 230 pounds over
my "insurance weight" and just about 200 over my personal goal
weight, what I weighed in college.
In other words, RNY has more "support" for your changed lifestyle
than the sleeve, because of the added malabsorption from the intestinal
portion of the procedure. As for those who say RNY is "no way to
live," I would ask... what is obesity? Is that any way to live? Not
that RNY is the only answer for anybody, but for many many people RNY has
changed their lives for the better when nothing else had. And... my support
group tells me that most of them can eat smaller portions of just about any
food they want, once they're a year or so out from the procedure (some
people do get "dumping syndrome" eating sugar and that stays with
them). Of course, the whole point is that we need to change our lifestyles
and NOT eat the stuff we were eating before that got us up to being wayyyy
too heavy. So... just a reminder again that this procedure (or any
successful WLS) is as much or more about your head and your heart as it is
about what a surgeon does to your stomach and intestines. You have to
commit to the beastly difficult process of changing your habits, and the
surgery helps you do that.
— Greg K.
June 24, 2010
I HAD RNY 15 MONTHS AGO AND HAD NO COMPLICATIONS . I HAVE HAD WEIGHT
PROBLEMS SINCE I WAS A KID . THIS WAS THE MOST AMAZING RESULTS I'VE EVER
HAD . I DO HAVE RESTRICTIONS AND I HAVE DUMPING SYNDROM , ALSO WITH THE
DUMPING AND THE GAS COMES PRETTY BAD ODORRS . THESE ARE THE BAD THINGS .
THE GOOD PART IS I'VE LOST 204 LBS. AND 22 PANT SIZES IN 15 MONTHS . I NO
LONGER TAKE BLOOD PRESSURE MEDICATION OR HAVE TO SLEEP WITH A CPAP MACHINE
. I CAN WALK AND RUN LIKE I'VE NEVER DONE IN MY LIFE . BUT THE MOST
IMPORTANT THING IS I TRULY BELIEVE I CAN NOW BEAT MY WEIGHT PROBLEMS LONG
TERM . MY CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF IS SO HIGH I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW GOOD I FEEL .
I'M VERY HAPPY WITH MY RNY AND WOULD DO IT AGAIN IN A HEART BEAT . ANY
NEGATIVES I'VE HAD OR STILL HAVE ARE MINOR TO THE GREAT RESULTS I'VE
ACHIEVED . BOTH SURGERYS ARE GOOD BUT THE RNY HAS WORKED SO WELL FOR ME .
THESE ARE MY RESULTS STUDY BOTH PROCEDURES VERY CAREFULLY BECAUSE THIS IS
ONE OF THE BIGGEST DECISIONS YOU'LL EVER MAKE . RNY GAVE ME BACK MY LIFE
AND I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THAT . GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DECISION JUST DO WHATS
BEST IN YOUR HEART ...........ROGER.
— ROGER COTE
June 24, 2010
Hello Friend, My two cents worth is this.... I investigated both methods
and decided to go with the RNY. My reasoning was this, ( I am a patient,
not an expert ), with the sleeve there is a possibility of slipping which
means they have to go back in to re-place it. I chose the RNY too, because
I deemed it more permanent and in a manner of speaking I wanted to stamp my
committment on what I was doing. To me changing our anatomy takes a
committment and in some way say there's no going back. Like the adage
goes; in for a penny, in for a pound. (no pun intended). I have not had
one single day I ever regretted doing what I did. I had mine done August
5, 2005 and I am alive and well. Before I had the surgery I wasn't sure
how long I was going to be able to say that. I'm 53 and younger now than I
was at 40. Whichever way you choose, I'm rooting for you. Please keep me
posted and I will be there if you need me. Best, Ray
— Arl3rd
June 24, 2010
I almost forgot. There is a link with good information if you need it. I
used this to help me decide. TTFN Ray
http://www.webmd.com/diet/gastric-bypass-operations
— Arl3rd
June 24, 2010
I just wanted to say that I had the sleeve done 2 years ago this month. I
have lost 80 pounds and maintained the weight loss. But please realize that
NO surgery is going to work a miracle for you at keeping the weight off.
With ANY weight loss surgery, we can gain back the weight IF we return to
our poor eating habits over time. But what the others have said here is oh
so true. YOU have to do what is right for you. And somewhere in your heart
of hearts you know what is right for you. Think about what your surgeon
has discussed with you, think about your fears, your concerns. Make a list
of the pros and cons of each surgery and then the answer that brings you
peace or makes you feel secure...that is what is right for you. NO surgery
is worth risking our health for so be wise in your decision. Listen to your
doctor's advice and let God take care of the rest. If you use wisdom and
you follow your doctor's advice and eat healthy, take your vitamins,
etc...you will be successful with either surgery. I love my sleeve and
thank God every day for it. In the beginning I had researched about the lap
band for 3 years and I was convinced that I was going to do the lap band
until 1 week before surgery, I felt this fear inside that it wouldn't work
for me and that my body would have problems with it. I discussed my fears
with my surgeon and the week of my surgery I changed to having the sleeve.
I am so glad that I did. So, what I'm saying is...don't be persuaded by
others opinions. Consider the risks, know your own
habits....abilities...etc, what made you fail with the lap band? Was it
difficulty in controlling your own appetite? Maybe discuss that with your
surgeon...You will know inside what will work for you. No one knows you
like YOU do. Don't over think it or you will stay confused and that will
make you feel afraid to make the decision. Just decide within yourself and
then you will know. God bless you on your journey. Jodi
— Jodi L.
June 25, 2010
I had the sleeve done 2 years ago next month, i have lost 120 pounds and
have kept it off...i feel great!! I dont understand about what
someone(Arthur) i think said about the sleeve slipping, that is not
possible, it is what it says, you get a sleeve looking stomach and the rest
gets cut and thrown away. I just hope you can decide what is best for you!!
I have heard about so many failures of the band, I don't understand why
they are still doing that, but all in all, best of luck to you. I have a
niece that had the sleeve and a daughter in law that had the rny, I think
for them, being younger, the rny would be the way to go....just my opinion.
— [Deactivated Member]
June 25, 2010
Go to this website I have provided for you with the instructions on how to
get to it. It is the hospital that did my surgery. This is a comparison
chart that tells you all the pros and cons of each surgery. GO TO
WWW.LAPSF.COM, ON THE LEFT SIDE BLUE BOX CLICK "WEIGHT LOSS AND
REVISIONAL
SURGERIES" THEN CLICK "INTRO-WHAT ARE MY OPTIONS", SCROLL
DOWN TO WHERE YOU SEE THE PICTURE
OF A STOMACH-CLICK HERE TO VIEW THE "SURGERY COMPARISON CHART".
PRINT THIS EMAIL SO YOU
CAN FOLLOW MY INSTRUCTIONS. I have it in my profile, but it is hard to read
unless you zoom it in and put in another program to be able to zoom and
reprint it. It is very helpful. Don't hesitate to email me if you can't
get to it and I will send it as an attachment. I have had several people
ask for it. take care
— Kristy
June 25, 2010
Go to this website I have provided for you with the instructions on how to
get to it. It is the hospital that did my surgery. This is a comparison
chart that tells you all the pros and cons of each surgery. GO TO
WWW.LAPSF.COM, ON THE LEFT SIDE BLUE BOX CLICK "WEIGHT LOSS AND
REVISIONAL
SURGERIES" THEN CLICK "INTRO-WHAT ARE MY OPTIONS", SCROLL
DOWN TO WHERE YOU SEE THE PICTURE
OF A STOMACH-CLICK HERE TO VIEW THE "SURGERY COMPARISON CHART".
PRINT THIS EMAIL SO YOU
CAN FOLLOW MY INSTRUCTIONS. I have it in my profile, but it is hard to read
unless you zoom it in and put in another program to be able to zoom and
reprint it. It is very helpful. Don't hesitate to email me if you can't
get to it and I will send it as an attachment. I have had several people
ask for it. take care
— Kristy
June 25, 2010
You need and should weigh all your options with your surgeon. Some people
do not qualify for certain surgeries depending on several variables such
as; BMI, health issues, etc. This is a helpful comparison chart
http://www.lapsf.com/weight-loss-surgeries.html
however, this should be throughly discussed with your surgeon.
— [Deactivated Member]
June 25, 2010
You need and should weigh all your options with your surgeon. Some people
do not qualify for certain surgeries depending on several variables such
as; BMI, health issues, etc. This is a helpful comparison chart
http://www.lapsf.com/weight-loss-surgeries.html
however, this should be throughly discussed with your surgeon.
— [Deactivated Member]
June 25, 2010
I had the VSG and its different restriction than the band because the large
part of your stomach is removed. That's the part with the hunger hormones
in it. I'm not as hungry as I used to be. It's been 1year and 3 months for
me and I have lost 95 lbs. the first 90 was easy and now if I just workout
some and make an effort to watch what I'm eating I lose weight easily
again. All of these surgeries take effort to be completely successful. I
think the sleeve is fantastic and would recommend it to anyone because I
know I'm not putting my health at risk. I have had mild dumping syndrome
when I eat too much sugar and my sleeve makes it difficult to digest rice,
pasta, breads and potatoes which is good because I shouldn't be eating
those anyway. I had a friend that wanted RNY and the doctor convinced her
to have the VSG for health reasons and she has had fantastic results. She
has lost over 120 lbs. in less than 11 months. She is very happy she ended
up getting the VSG. I hope you have great success and good health not
matter which surgery you choose.
— Lisa von Wallmenich
June 25, 2010
I was lucky when making my decision. My doctor would not give me a band
bacause I was diabetic. I don't know the reasoning for that, but the
answer was, just don't even ask. Diabetics cannon have a band. Okay, what
about the RNY? Well, I wasn't eligible for that because I am arthritic.
If you have to take NSAIDS for any reason, you must go with the sleeve.
You can never take NSAIDS for pain again after you have RNY. Your pouch is
just too small, and is susceptible to ulcers. So I had a Sleeve. Since I
HAVE to take NSAIDS several times a day, my surgeon left me slightly larger
stomach to cope, and it has worked wonders. I love it. The other thing to
keep in mind is that if the sleeve stops working for you, there is a second
follow-up procedure that is easy to do, and practically guarantees success.
Apparently however, most sleeve gastrectomies dont ever need to go on with
the second procedure.
Whatever your decision, good luck and congratulations for making this
important and life-changing decision.
— pshock
June 27, 2010
I have come to the conclusion that it is you and your doctor decision, he
also know what is best for you. All WLS has one thing in common they are
tools that we have to work at.and all surgery is taking a chance. But it is
also a chance to stay in the condition that we are in with being heavy and
causing damage to our bodies and health. So to me it is a choose life
decision. I will have my surgery on August 18th i am having RNY,I also did
a lot of research and with my doc help this one is best for me.So pray and
know that which ever one you chose,that will be the right one for you. It
only get better from here. Take care Dorothy
— [Deactivated Member]
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