Question:
So I am approved after one year and 6 months!

So I just want to run out in the streets and yell I'm approved. The sad part if my family is so against it that I have nobody who is happy for me. My family is afraid of complications and doesn't want me to have it. I am a healthy 30 year old with weight being my only problem. I am a little nervous but I want this so bad.    — araynard29 (posted on March 29, 2010)


March 29, 2010
CONGRATULATIONS AMANDA - Your are about to start a totally new life! I am soo very happy for you. I am almost 10 months post-surgery and I have never been happier in my life! Follow your doctors instructions very closely, don't be afraid to call him/her after surgery, and be very proactive with your after care. Complications can happen - I got an infection a week after surgery, but it was no big deal. I would totally do this surgery again! YEAH AMANDA - go ahead and shout it in the streets!!!!!!!!
   — juneyl

March 29, 2010
I went thru the same thing.They are just scared.But that is life! I told everyone I was getting lapband and when I came out of surgery I told them the truth.I a 6 weeks post from RNY and would do it again! I have felt great from day 1.Best of luck to you!
   — davonjack

March 29, 2010
Share your excitement here, Amanda....we'll all rejoice with you! You have LOTS of friends on this website without even having to ask! And almost ALL of us would do it again in a nano-second....it's THAT life-changing! Congratulations to you, and don't let anyone get you down!
   — Erica Alikchihoo

March 29, 2010
You must be so excited! It's ok to be nervous,it's normal. I did alot of education with my family. they of course were worried and scared for me. I'm 20 years older then you. Should have had the surgery when I was 30. I had no health issues other than my weight, and joint pain and being tired all the time. 8 months almost to the day from my RNY, 114lbs lost, no joint pain, NO complications, tons of energy. I feel and look 20 years younger. I'm very happy for you. Best thing I ever did for just me.
   — Nurseducky

March 29, 2010
Congrats! It was a year and a half for me also before I finally got to have the surgery, and I'm SOOOO happy I did. I'm 4-1/2 months out from RNY and I seriously regret not having had it years ago. By the way, I didn't even tell my family or friends, other than my husband and his sister, because I didn't want to hear their opinions and comments. Again, congratulations!
   — Janell C.

March 29, 2010
Amanda, your post sounds like me, I heard so many negative comments about my decision to have the surgery, that I wished I hadn't told a soul. These comments even came from my immediate family. I guess they are scared but I think it is more than that, sorry to say. Like I say many times on posts, it hasn't been easy for me, but I would do it in a New York minute again.
   — FSUMom

March 29, 2010
Amanda, your post sounds like me, I heard so many negative comments about my decision to have the surgery, that I wished I hadn't told a soul. These comments even came from my immediate family. I guess they are scared but I think it is more than that, sorry to say. Like I say many times on posts, it hasn't been easy for me, but I would do it in a New York minute again.
   — FSUMom

March 29, 2010
CONGRATS AMANDA!!!! :) Your family is worried... mine was also! I had RNY 12/09 and have lost 54lbs. It's been a journey. But a road well traveled in my book! Keep us posted! ~live as if all your dreams came true~
   — fortywhat2

March 30, 2010
HI AMANDA I'M REALLY GLAD YOU GOT APPROVED . I KNOW YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR SAFETY DURING SURGERY . THEY SHOULD BE MORE WORRIED IF YOU DON'T GO AHEAD WITH THIS SURGERY . I HAD RNY SURGERY 1 YEAR AGO . MY RNY SURGERY HAS SAVED MY LIFE . I NO LONGER TAKE ANY KIND OF MEDICATION , MY SLEEP APNEA HAS DISAPPEARED , MY BLOOD PRESSURE IS NORMAL AND I HAVE ENERGY THAT GOES THROUGH THE ROOF . THE BEST PART IS I'VE LOST 184 LBS. AND AM STILL LOSING . THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS YOU'LL EVER DO FOR YOURSELF . JUST KEEP YOUR FOCUS AHEAD , AND WHEN THIS IS ALL DONE AND YOUR FAMILY SEES THE NEW YOU , THEY'LL REALIZE YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE . TAKE IT FROM ME I WAS IN BAD SHAPE BEFORE I STARTED THIS , WHAT A DIFFERENCE A YEAR HAS MADE ...........ROGER
   — ROGER COTE




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