Question:
Will this surgery shorten my life?
My sister is in the heath care field and says that the doctors she works with say that after the RNY, I will be sick and die by 55. Well, I'm in pain every day and I'm sure obesity will shorten my life. However, the women in my family live very long lives even with obesity. I really want to see my grandchilden grow up. I'm 33 years old and don't want to face only having 20years left. — Laurie V. (posted on March 18, 2002)
March 17, 2002
i am 58 and have had the surgery on 9/5 down 140 pound and feel betterv
then i have for 15 years i no longer have diabeties less heart medication
and will be getting of my bi pap machine it is the best thing i have done
— ted M.
March 17, 2002
The OLD surgeries of 20+ years ago led to great weight loss but side
affects that caused shorter life spans for some! Mostly kidney and liver
malabsorbtion problems. But the RNY is different, its partially
malabsorbtive, but a big part of how it works is restrcting physically how
much we can eat by creating that small pouch. Now in MY case loosing 125
pounds as well as diabetes, high blood pressure, severe sleep apnea, high
chlestrol, and a myriad of other health problems certinally should give me
some more healthy years of life. Truthfully I didnt WANT to live any longer
with diabetes. My feet were starting to get numb, and my vision was being
affected too. ALL VERY BAD. None of us know how long we will live, anyone
can get whipped out at any moment. But I sure enjoy my healthier life post
op. See my profile for more info~! POST OP IS THE PLACE TO BE!
— bob-haller
March 18, 2002
My goodness. Do the doctors that she works with still use leaches? They
aren't terribly informed are they? If your getting your nutrition, losing
weight, exercising, and all of your co-morbitities are gone, how is this
going to shorten your life? Like the other poster said. Maybe with the
old surgeries this was a problem but those doctors need to join the rest of
us in the 21st century.
— Meredith A.
March 18, 2002
I think these people are probably thinking of the old stomach stapling
surgeries back in the 70s and earlier. Yes, a lot of people got sick from
these and died. The RNY these days is the gold standard. People get the
gastric bypass when they develop stomach cancer and other similar problems.
Although it is impossible to say whether those who are getting the RNY now
will live longer or shorter lives (we just don't have that data yet), it
appears that most are doing just fine, thriving in fact!
— Terissa R.
March 18, 2002
Hi I'm 20 and pre-op and worry about this too. I figure though that if you
get your labs done religiously, get bone density scans, etc, and everything
is normal, then how could you be at risk of an early death? Most
health-related deaths don't come without some warning, right? The obese
men and women in my family live very long lives too and do pretty well. My
grandmother is 87 and only recently developed diabetes, she has high blood
pressure, and arthiritis... but she still lives alone and takes care of
herself. I don't think I want to live to be 87 like I am now though. I
hope and pray that I'm making the right decision. I've made my peace with
it for the most part. Good luck to you!
— [Deactivated Member]
March 18, 2002
I know someone who got this operation when they were 56 yeas old. Does that
mean they have been dead for 1 year and not even know it? :) I got this
surgery at 51 only 4 years left? Only God knows for sure when your number
is up!
Good luck
— Robert L.
March 18, 2002
I don't think anyone has the answer at this point. I'm guessing they have
been doing the RNY's around 10 years now? But I only know I could'nt go on
much longer with the 319 pounds as I could feel my body giving out. At
least now, I'm doing better. Although I'm still having some problems, they
are getting better. Perhaps the RNY will shorten my life, but if I had a
choice I'd chose quality over quanity any day. My guess is I will live a
longer and healthier life than if I had'nt had the surgery.
— Danmark
March 18, 2002
THANK YOU FOR YOUR POSTS. I FEEL MUCH BETTER. I SPOKE WITH MY MOTHER ON
THE MATTER AND SHE THINKS THAT MAYBE MY SISTER IS MORE JEALOUS THAN
ANYTHING. MY SISTER IS EVEN HEAVIER THAN I AM AND BLAMES IT ON A DIFFERENT
MEDICAL PROBLEM EVERY OTHER MONTH. IT WOULD BE NICE IF SHE COULD REALIZE
THAT SHE'S JUST IN THE SAME MESS AS THE REST OF US AND NEEDS TO FIND A REAL
SOLUTION. ;)
— Laurie V.
March 18, 2002
Laurie, please understand that most doctors that don't do this type of
surgery, do'nt really advocate it. Are they correct? Possibly. I know
that there are many many people who have had WLS and are so satisfied and
happy with it. Their lives will probably be lengthened by doing this. I
also know that there are some, like me, who have had nothing but serious
problems since having surgery. So far, seems my life will certainly not be
expanded by doing this and may, in the end be shortened...if not shortened,
then the quality of life has been severely damaged. I honestly don't think
this surgery makes you die sooner but I also think that many people
advocate the surgery and tend to look over the problems that it can cause
because they want to "fix" this thing called obesity. There's
nothing wrong with that at all but I have talked to so many doctors
recently who do NOT advocate it. Also, please know that I had the BPD/DS
and NOT the RNY. This also might make a difference.
— Barbara H.
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