Question:
day before surgery and having anxiety issues about dying anyone else have this
i would really like to hear other peoples take on this or their experience cause im stomach is doing flips and i feel like barfing :p please HELP!!! — gelicadoll (posted on April 19, 2010)
April 19, 2010
I had my surgery on April 5 with much anxiety. In addition to this being
the first surgery I every had I also never had an IV until about 3 weeks
prior. I freaked a little bit about the anesthesia and dying but I
remained focused on the goal, trusted in modern medicine, and was at peace
with God, through prayer with myself, family, and pastor. Now that I am on
the other side I understand why I was anxious and that my thoughts and
feeling were valid and normal. Reality is that I am here doing well -
already lost 43 pounds, and feeling fine.
— jmbatlanta
April 19, 2010
Yes, I had it when I had my first WLS in 97 and the revision in 00. It's
fairly common. It was so bad in 97 that for a couple weeks beforehand I
would have panic attacks so bad that I just knew I was going to throw up
and pass out. My husband at the time had to make several mad dashes for
the side of the road. Surgery is serious stuff so it is normal to be
nervous but what helped me was focusing on what my life was like before
surgery, how miserable I was and then thinking about how my life would be
after surgery. Also, as another poster said I made sure I made things
right with my Lord and Savior and I also made sure that everyone of my
family and close friends knew how very much I loved them. Then you just
get your game face on and go for it!! Please let us know once you have
crossed over to the loser's side, ok? Take care and God bless you.
— Kellye C.
April 19, 2010
RNY 2 June 2009 and I would be worried if you didn't have any anxiety or
worries. This is natural and once you are under......you will be surprised
how quickly you are being nudged to wake up and being told ....your
procedure is done. Your weight loss brothers and sisters will all keep you
in our thoughts and prayers and will await your first email too all of us
telling us how good you are feeling.
Good luck and welcome to the official "loser's bench."
— karensaporito
April 19, 2010
I know how you feel. I hope I never have to feel that anxious about
anything ever again. I am not one to get like that...ever! I was so
scared and I was alone through the whole thing. I was new to the city
where I live and my husband was far, far away working. You just focus on
what you have to do and let the doctors do their job. I completely agree
with what Jim said. You cannot worry about what you can do nothing about.
Just believe in the positive and remember that no one goes anywhere until
it's time and then it doesn't matter what you are doing. Can't wait to
hear from you afterwards. Stay calm and focused on the hard work that is
yet to come. God bless!
— lryan106
April 20, 2010
My surgery is 1 week from tommorow on the 28th and I am sure I will have
some of these fears but, I totally trust my Surgeon and know that I am good
hands! I am also a Christian and not scared of death. Just always remember
to tell the ones you love every chance you get because you never know in
this world when it could be your last. You will do great and we will be
looking forward to seeing your update after surgery. God Bless You My
Friend!
— trying2findmyself
April 20, 2010
Anxiety is very normal. Each time I have had surgery, and I have had 17
surgeries, I get anxious. But you are doing something for your good and you
are placing yourself in very capable hands. They wouldn't be operating, I
feel unless they felt it was in your best interest and all would be good.
Any surgery carries risk but the great advances in medicine, and especially
laproscopic lessens that risk.
In my opinion, God is in control and He will send His angels to watch over
you. Peace
— Margiejo5811
April 20, 2010
My surgery is May 12th and I am pretty much terified already.
But I know that in the long run this is the best decision I will ever make
for myself.
Hang in there - it will be great!
— Cherish F.
April 20, 2010
I would be more concerned if you weren't anxious - I was terrified!!! Had
all my plans made ahead of time - what to do about kids, grands, buriel
etc... sure am glad it is over and it was the best thing I have ever done
for ME!!
— sheri139
April 20, 2010
yes I was so scared the day before the surgery and the day of surgery.I
worried did I tell everyone that I loved them,I also wrote instructions
where they could find Important papers and money. I should of not even
worried because I was in very capable hands with Dr.A. I would be more
worried if you didn't get scared, it is major surgery after all. I believe
that everyone goes through this stage
before any surgeries.
— Mary D.
April 21, 2010
I just had my lap-band this past Monday, April 19, and I had a very strong
AWARENESS of that possibility, but I wouldn't really call it severe
anxiety. Which is actually pretty funny in my case (and somewhat
unexplainable) because I've had panic disorder/panic attacks for more than
30 years. I had faith in my surgeon - he's terrific - and in the staff at
the hospital. A healthy dose of anxiety is perfectly normal before any
surgery.
In the days pre-op I let my family all know how much I love them, but tried
to do it without any unnecessary drama. And for my teenage son I left a
letter which - had I not come through the surgery - he would have found on
my desk. It was mostly about him and how proud I am to be his dad, and
very up-beat.
Don't be afraid of being afraid - it's normal and probably a healthy
response to a possibly risky event.
— Harry Marnell
April 28, 2010
Yes -- mine came and went several times over the course of my near year
long trek. It's always a possibility. My wife asked me to print something
with all my life insurance and stuff. I ended up doing a ulogy, funeral
plans, etc. It made me feel better and a little more confident about the
procedure. Now am 2 weeks post and -50lbs.
— drcrews
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