Question:
My goal was to wear a size 12 and get to 170lbs

I'm at my size 12 but I'm still 186lbs. Have I reached goal? or where do I go from here. I had the band on Oct 11 and haven't had any fills    — bchicks42 (posted on January 7, 2008)


January 7, 2008
Shoot, congradulations! That is wonderful. I think I would go for the 170 if that was your goal weight. Getting into a 12 is awsome. If you've been doing exercise regularly you've probably but some good muscle in there (way to go!) and that would most likely be why you hit the 12 before you hit the 170, simply because muscle is more dense than fat, so it occupyies less space but may weigh more. Yes, I'd keep going to the 170. You'll probably find yourself in a 9/10 by then. Congrats again, Leslie
   — LuvNSummer

January 7, 2008
If you feel good, GREAT! You met one goal of the size 12. If you get down to 170 wonderful. If not don't sweat it. I am sure you look great!
   — Carlyn M.

January 7, 2008
congratulation on your success. i m very happy for you
   — yvettetas

January 7, 2008
That's awesome -- congratulations. I'm down to 185, and between Size 14/16 -- I stick with the 16 due to the loose skin. That is great news and great progress. I have no idea how small I'm going to get. I'm post-op 11 months bypass.
   — the7thdean

January 7, 2008
It's still early in your weight loss; did your surgeon discuss goals with you? I had to bring it up with my surgeon; he told me what my "normal" weight should be, we both decided that's way to low (I'm 5'3" and should be about 135 - 140 lbs, but I'm also 56 years old and have NO desire or expectations to wear a bikini!) and agreed about 145 - 150 would be fine. But he also said that this can be re-evaluated as I lose weight. I also discussed this conversation with my primary care physician because he's the one that I work with for all my medical problems, and he also agreed with this plan. With your surgery in October you can have a fill if you'd like; I'd suggest you contact his office and see what they think.
   — obeseforever

January 7, 2008
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!My opinion you have reached goal. I think if you get to your weight goal, you'll probaly get down at least another size, may be two!!! Great job!!!
   — Tania_B.

January 7, 2008
Are you complaining or bragging? ;-) I would not concern myself about the "extra" weight you thought you needed to lose at one time. If you are at a healthy weight and you are happy with what you see in the mirror, what more could you ask for? Count yourself among the fortunate and stop beating yourself up over some erstwhile misguided goal.
   — [Deactivated Member]

January 7, 2008
My goal was 150 and I NEVER reached it. I got to 152 (after about 10-20 pounds of lose skin was removed) and I looked bad. My husband's mother asked him if I was sick because I was looking "gaunt". My point is--you may think you want to get to a certain weight, but some big people have big bones that make them able to carry more weight and look small!!! So if you look good and feel good, be happy about what you have done so far. If you look 16 pounds fine, if not that will be fine too!!
   — GAYLE CARMACK-LYONS

January 8, 2008
The really nice thing about goals and success for human beings is that we get to define it. You defined it previously. Do you accept the current circumstances as success? If yes, then you have done it! If you want further goals for further success it doesn't take away from this success of yours. Good on you! You've done really well!
   — Janice B.

January 8, 2008
Try using a search engine to find a BMI chart. Look up your height and figure out what the weight range is for someone with a "normal" BMI. Is 186 in that range? How do you feel? Are you still having weight related complications? Do you feel satisfied with how you look/feel? Where do you go from here.... well, if you are satisfied that you've met your goal weight, then celebrate!! :) If not, give yourself some time to get to where you want to be. Once you've reached your set goal, then you need to work on maintaining your weight loss. Congrats and good luck.
   — mrsidknee




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