Question:
regain 11 lbs

i had surgery 2007 i lost 90 lbs i gain 11 lbs.. i been depressed and the only thing i can think of is food, food. i'm so desapointed on my self.i been trying to go back to the gym but don't have the energy..what is wrong with me please help...    — smile915 (posted on March 2, 2009)


March 1, 2009
Honey, I had surgery in 07 also. This isn't going to be easy. You need to go back to your surgeon and talk to him about your struggles - then see a nutritionist. I haven't gained any weight back but I'm on a strict diet. I use Fit Day to track my exercise, food intake, and water intake and also my daily weight. You can do this!
   — angelalynn1968

March 1, 2009
You might think about going and talking to someone. There could be some issues you need to deal with. Or you may just need to talk to someone. I have gone to counsling through out the years. I started going again when I decided I wanted to get this surgery. I will continue after I have the surgery for awhile. Think of it as a tune up. Don't get down on yourself, think positively. You will make it through this. Good luck. Have a great day.
   — dsquire

March 1, 2009
Start immediately writting down everything you eat and drink keeping a log. Starting walking everyday. If in one week you haven't dropped anything. Call a proffesional. You'll already have a log of food n excerise. You are taking in too much bad carbs n calories- sugar in anyform.
   — Eneleh

March 1, 2009
Depression is a trigger to eat for many people. Find a counselor to help you work through the problems. They can help you find new ways to cope with trouble. Then get back on track. Don't beat your self up. This will just lead to more weight gain. Do it one day at a time and congratulate yourself for each step you take in the right direction. Walk around the block, then two blocks. Start small and celebrate each step you take. You can do this.
   — trible

March 2, 2009
First it is normal to see an 10% weight gain after the first years...Most of us have a small gain...I gained back 8 that I cannot lose without some serious dieting and intervention...Too much work for long term maintenance for me personally...I maintain the 8 lb gain with no extra weight gain and no problems...so that's fine with me! The one thing you said is that you have "no energy"...That is a symptom that needs further investigation. If you haven't had a full check of all your vitals and vitamin levels...GO GET LABS! If your vitamin levels are off, your body can stop functioning properly and can cause you weight gains, even with mal-nutrition! Maybe you are thinking food food food, because your body is craving certain vitamins ytou are not getting? Maybe? Start with labs...and if you are not taking vitamins...you best start taking them! Then you can consider trying to cut calories and kick up your exercise...
   — .Anita R.

March 2, 2009
Hey Glenda.. Don't despair. We have all had down times. You should really consider going and talking to someone. If you can't afford the counseling or your insurance won't cover it, then consider talking to your pastor, old friend, etc. Alot of us, myself included tend to gravitate to the old "comfortable friend" that got me by emotionally. But that friendship with food can be a costly one. So sit down in a quiet place and write down why you wanted to lose the weight to begin with... was it get healthy? Able to comfortably wear a swimsuit? Cross your legs? Fit in a movie theater/airline seat without spilling over? Fit in a booth at a restaurant? Be able to play with your children? Etc, etc, etc,... you get the idea. Write down the positives of having lost the weight, the negatives (if any) and review that. Get back on your food diary and exercise diary.... be honest. If you can... start journalling. You will be surprised about how much it will help to just put all of your thoughts down on paper. there is a book that is really good that I frequently refer back to and I had my RNY in Oct 2006... Doctor's Guide to Weight Loss Surgery by Louis Flancbaum. and it also has some great recipes. go to the food forum site and get some ideas for some hi protein snacks... I wish you luck...
   — Kari_K

March 2, 2009
I can relate - I also had my surgery in 2007 and lost 99lb. I never could get that 1 extra lb. off just to say I lost 100 lbs. Additionally, I still have about 100 lb more to go. I was so discouraged. Not eating huge meals any longer was not working for me anymore. So, I did some research and came across 2 great websites - www.LivingAfterWLS.com & www.5daypouchtest.com. They explained a lot of how the pouch works, especially when you are not following the original guidelines given to you in the beginning. Not necessarily, bad things, but for instance, drinking liquids with your meal. How harmless could that be if you are drinking water? Right? The information was great and I am starting my 5 day pouch test. I also use fitday to track everything also. It's free and a greaaaaaat tool! Good luck. If I were you, I would have the labs done to see what is causing your lack of energy. If you are eating too many carbs, that will do it too!
   — BonnieP

March 2, 2009
Glenda, don't be so hard on yourself. The fact you are reaching out to the OH community says a lot. I think all the advise you are getting is great and I will add that you don't need a gym to get exercise. Just taking a walk and swinging your arms is good exercising. Some tv systems have exercise programs - things you can do at home. One show taught ways to exercise while you are sitting at your desk at work. Having your labs checked first is the best idea.
   — Muggs

March 2, 2009
I am just a newby but if you can just try to get back to basics, that may help. Re-evaluate your diet and cut the carbs, stick with protein. You didn't mention what type surgery you had but if RNY, try the 5 day pouch test and see if that works for you. I agree with others, don't beat yourself up you have accomplished alot so just try to stay positive and move forward.
   — Stephanie H.




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