Question:
how soon after wls is sex allowed? Felling the pressure

   — halfofme (posted on February 1, 2006)

February 1, 2006
Hi, The Dr said 4 weeks, but I managed to have it very carefully at 3 weeks. It is a personal preference. You may or may not be feeling up to it, depending on which procedure you had. Good luck, April
   — April

February 1, 2006
Agreed, everyone is different. It was 6 weeks for me because I had a few complications. Whenever you do it- go slowly and realize having someone's full weight on top of you will be very uncomfortable for some time. Just like it took time to lay flat again after surgery. Go slow- enjoy!
   — ppaige

February 2, 2006
Thanks for the smile! It took me back 3 years, and the pressure was there for me too! Remember that there is more than one way to relieve the pressure. If intercourse is uncomfortible, try something else ;o). I remember that after my 1 week appointment, I had to see the doctor again in 1 month and sex had to wait until after that visit.......I didn't make it. Be gentle, listen to your body, be creative and have fun! WLS 9-13-2002 320-175
   — wiggie34

February 2, 2006
My doctor told me to do it when I was comfortable. It was about two weeks for me.
   — EvaD

February 2, 2006
Everyone is different!! I was BAD, My husband and I had sex at day 5...very carefully, I still had drain tubes in, how attractive is that...lol. I had Lap. RNY and had hardly no pain at all. So I guess it depends on a lot of factors. Mind you I didnt tell my doctor till later, and he did say as long as your careful and comfortable. Just be cautious!
   — Franca

February 3, 2006
WE did a few days after i got home from the surgery. Just be careful to not put pressure on your incicsions. YOur surgery is nowhere near your sex organs, so you should be able to do it as soon as you feel like it, as long as you are careful and do not indulge in any wild positions or activity!
   — Novashannon