Question:
Psych Evaluation
I am looking to have RNY within the next month or so. I have my psych eval tomorrow and am looking for any advice anyone can give me about it. Thanks in advance! — mensing03 (posted on September 2, 2009)
September 2, 2009
They are just checking to make sure you are mentally stable enough to
handle the surgery and to make sure you don't have a history of eating
disorders like anorexia or bulemia. (spelling might be wrong) If you do,
they won't give you the surgery. My doctor's report said, he sees no
reason why I shouldn't be able to have the surgery. I am a good candidate.
Best wishes to you.
— Kristy
September 2, 2009
Yeah, it's no biggie. They just want to make sure that you are competent
enough to understand about the decisions you are making and to assess your
ability to care for yourself, afterward. Like the other person mentioned,
they also need to screen you for eating disorders that might need to be
addressed prior to surgery. They want to know that you fully understand
what you are getting yourself in for and that you can handle the after care
needed. Good luck!
— PaulaJ
September 2, 2009
Don't cry...I started crying and had to go back a few times...LOL
— ckb70
September 2, 2009
Hi Bobbie....it's funny. I went all "prepared" with pictures of
me from the time I was 2 or 3 years old, showing the progression from
skinny little kid to chubby older kid, to husky pre-teen, to lush (not fat,
but REALLY BUILT 12 year old, to overweight teenager (but not badly
overweight), to young mother gaining weight on a regular basis. She didn't
even give me an opportunity to tell her the history of my weight gain or
show her the pictures. She asked questions like, "what kind of
support people do you have in place?" and "why do you think
you're overweight?" and "what have you done prior to now to lose
the weight?" and "have you dealt with the issues that made you
become overweight?" and "how do you think this surgery is going
to help you lose the weight?" and "what weight do you think is
healthy for you?" and "what kind of a relationship do you have
with food right now, and are you prepared for that to change totally?"
and "are you prepared mentally to handle the changes in other people's
attitudes towards you as you lose the weight?" and "are you
prepared to follow the post-op regimen of some kind of cardio exercise
EVERY day?" and stuff like that. Because I'd been in therapy for a
long time, I knew exactly why I was overweight, and was truthful with her,
and told her I had dealt with the issues that got me here, but that I was
unable to get the weight off for any significant length of time. Lucky for
me, I was not a binge eater, nor bulemic, nor someone who lived for sweets.
I just plain enjoy a BIG, hearty meal and the feeling of being full. But
I assured her that I was committed to being reduced to eating no more than
an ounce at a time for a while, and that my biggest problem was going to be
getting in all that water, but that I'd already been following my surgeon's
pre-op diet and had lost "x" amount of weight, and was working
hard to drink my 8 plus glasses per day, and told her how I was doing it
innovatively (drinking herbal teas, and flavored waters, and setting my
Outlook at work to come up and remind me to drink!). Anyways, I wouldn't
worry about it. Just TRY to relax and go in and be honest with whoever
you're seeing. It's not a punishment, it's for your own safety. If you
aren't a good candidate for the surgery, better to know BEFORE it's done,
not later.
— Erica Alikchihoo
September 2, 2009
I got all twisted mind wise before i went for mine. Thinking What is He
going to ask? Will he find something in my mind i didnt know i was
harboring???ha you will do fine. just answer as asked...it will work out!
— alaskaman
September 3, 2009
No problem, he just wants to be sure you know what the surgery is all
about, what it will entail afterwards, and if you are willing to do it.
He's not looking for any deeply harbored issues. Just be sure you know your
stuff.
— mrsannie
September 3, 2009
Yes it's about the same as the rest of the posters here, and omg I am
laughing at the one that cried, I'm sorry, but had to laugh when I came
across that one! hehe.
I had already been going to mine for a little bit also, so I knew her
pretty well and she knew me, so it wasn't a big deal, in fact, she was the
one that told me where she thought there might be some issues and that I
might struggle, so I was actually glad to hear that. I don't know what she
wrote yet, I pick it up later on this month, but I'm not worried. Whatever
is supposed to happen with all this will happen. Good Luck!
— eyeflirt4fun
September 3, 2009
It's easy... just be honest and don't be scared!
Lin in Watertown NY
— LinnieJean
September 3, 2009
Hi Bobbie. Don't sweat it too much. It's really a good thing to have. My
inital visit was about 45 mins with the psych doctor and then about 1-2 hrs
taking tests (lots and lots of questions). When he scores the tests it
gives him an indication of any possible mental issues you may need
treatment for. I always knew I experienced depression and sure it enough
the tests showed it. However, he didn't think it was severe enough to
derail my surgery but should have treatment. I have been meeting with Dr.
Smith since mid-July and I love him! He has helped me see things in ways I
never thought and just talking with him brought out other issues that I
didn't even know about (self-worth, self-control, gratitude, loving and
being loved, etc). I had my surgery on 8/10. I saw Dr. Smith yesterday for
the first time since the surgery and he was so happy and excited for me and
we just sat and talked like best buds. Embrace this chance to explore the
inner you, believe me it will have a huge effect on your weight loss
outcome. Good Luck!
— Cynthia W.
September 3, 2009
My psyche eval had me all nervous inside. I too feared they would somehow
dig out some hidden craziness I wasn't aware of. The craziness I am aware
of doesn't bother me. It's what I don't know that I don't want to know.
LOL. Seriously, relax. It is nothing more than making sure you understand
what WLS can and can't do for you. If you think it's the magic bullet to
cure all your personal ills then you're in trouble and you will not get a
recommendation from the psyche doc. Essentially it's just to make sure
you're educated about WLS and the lifestyle changes needed for long term
success, whether you have support at home for recovery and a few questions
about your current home life if you're married, a parent, etc. I had a
wonderful psyche doc; she made me feel so comfortable it was like talking
to an old friend.
— Arkin10
September 3, 2009
THANKS to everyone who posted an answer for me!! It was very helpful to
know what everyone else went thought. I had my appointment at 2 today and
passed with flying colors! :) I was very excited when I left his office! I
am well on my way to the RNY and a new me!! Thanks again everyone!!!
— mensing03
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