Question:
Pregnancy 2 mo postop

I am 2 mo postop and just found out that i am pregnant. I have to be no mor than 4 wks along. My concerns are the recent WLS, I take Paxil (which is not a good antidepressant to be on when pregnant due to complications) and also I have had 2 EGD's in the past month that required anesthesia. My bf and I have decided due to health reasons and the above mentioned that it may not be a good thing to continue this pregnancy. I have an appt. this am with my GYN to discuss the situation, but wondering if anyone else had this problem.    — Nsggirl (posted on October 15, 2004)


October 15, 2004
Well...I am a pro-lifer so you wouldn't like my answer. I am hoping that someway, somehow your doctor(s) can give you some positive feedback and help you to decide to go through with the pregnancy. I have read where there have been a few people that have gotten pregnant early out and have continued the pregnancy. I haven't heard any life threatening problems. I wish you the best. Lyric
   — Lyric

October 15, 2004
I am on my second pregnancy post op... I take Prozac... my baby was born perfectly healthy... I really think that you are pregnant for a reason and hate to see such a wonderful miracle taken, you might not want to hear it. I do however believe a woman has a right to choose, and ultimatly you have to do what is right for you. I personally was scared, but it is as normal post op to have a baby as before... and as someone mentioned before people in underprivilaged countries have healthy babies everyday... you can do this if you want to... it is possible...
   — MF

October 15, 2004
I can't tell you what decision to make, but you would have a high risk pregnancy. You might need to be on continuous total parenteral nutrition to make sure both you and the baby get the proper amount of nutrients. Your gyn can advise you more about the risks of anesthesia and medications in early pregnancy. It all depends on how you feel about the pregnancy. It certainly is not a decision I would want to face, and I wish you peace of mind with whatever decision you make.
   — koogy

October 15, 2004
I am currently pregnant, 3 1/2 months...9 months post op. While I did not get pregnant as early on as you I did watch a show on the Discovery Health channel about Gastric Bypass where they found out she was pregnant DURING the RNY procedure!! The baby and mother were both fine and the mother was able to continue loosing after the baby was born. The baby didnt seem to have any problems with having been under the anesthesia. As others have said it is ultimitly your choice, and its one you and your BF have to be ok with and able to deal with. I wish you luck and strength in this difficult and trying time. Keep us posted on what your Dr has to say. God Bless, Roxanne
   — [Deactivated Member]

October 15, 2004
My surgeon requires two forms of birth control for the first year post-op. Why? Because with rapid weight loss your fertility goes sky high! And because it is not the optimal situation for you or baby right now to be trying to grow while your body is changing so fast with weight loss. Many have done it and all has turned out fine, but some had major complications. You might also want to consult with your surgeon to get his/her take on it too.
   — Dedicated

October 15, 2004
I got pregnant just 3 months out from surgery. It wasn't planned but truly the best thing that has ever happened for me and my husband of 17 years. I was not considered "high risk." I took regular prenatals and had a normal pregnancy. I had a natural labor with no complications. I lost a total of about 75 pounds while pregnant. My baby is very healthly. Thank God! My OBGYN said that I was one of many of her success stories. My daughter is my world. Some say I should have waited, but I wouldn't change a thing. I have continued to loose weight since her birth. As far as your question, I wasn't on any meds when she was conceived. However, I did get pregnant soon after surgery. I want to offer any advice I can if you choose to continue your pregnancy. God bless and feel free to e-mail me privately. Tina LAP/RYN 6/30/04 294/175
   — [Deactivated Member]

October 15, 2004
I am amazed that you got pregnant because to get pregnant you have to have sex and I wouldnt let my husband in the same room with me for 4 mnths after I had surgery....LOL! I was so miserable sex was the last thing on my mind, but of course my kids are grown, I wish you the best, whatever decision you make must be YOURS, not your family, friends, or the people on this board. YOURS. Good luck and God Bless you.
   — donnalawbabe

October 15, 2004
You should also talk to your WL surgeon. I know that a lot of people have perfectly healthy babies taking far worse drugs then Paxil. The actual weight loss or post-op surgeries shouldn't pose a risk either. There is a yahoo group out there specifically adressing this question. Sorry don't know the name....you might want to search the archives. Good luck!
   — SJP

October 15, 2004
I too took paxil while I was pregnant. I did not have any problems or complications. This was before my surgery though. I don't think the paxil will give you any problems. I would just discuss with your doctor. Good Luck.
   — missy4499

October 15, 2004
Please don't jump in to terminating the pregnancy. As you see, many of us early post ops have carried healthy pregnancies and produced healthy babies. I got pg about 4 1/2 months post op and had a healthy baby boy. I would definately discuss with your WL surgeon and also it is important to find an OBGYN who has experience dealing with post op WLS pregnancies. Mine did, so they did not consider me high risk. I just kept a very close eye on my diet (eating all the time to get enough in). And my docs just kept on eye on the baby's growth. I lost weight the entire pregnancy and afterwards, but had a healthy son! Good luck with whatever you decide!
   — emilyfink

October 16, 2004
HI, I also just found out that I am 5 weeks pregnant and 4 months post-op. I'm elated!!! I feel that the decision is strictly up to you. For me, at the age of 38 with an 11 year old, I'm excited. I have read alot of positive happenings and hope this pregnancy goes wonderful. I wish you well with your decision.
   — neumjake

October 16, 2004
While I am not in your situation, I take exception to ANYONE putting pressure on ANY woman for her ultimate decisions. Her health and that of a growing fetus is the issue--and perhaps this is not an ideal time. Either way--you have support no matter what you choose...I AM NOT PRO ABORTION I AM PRO CHOICE--all the best in whatever YOU CHOOSE!!
   — zena X.

October 16, 2004
A girl in our local live group found herself 5 months pregnant, when she was SIX MONTHS OUT! She had 4 months notice to get ready for a baby! (she did want another, just not yet, and yes, she was using precautions). So, for the first 5 months of that pregnanacy, she took rx, did everything a normal person would do, lost 120 lbs. Once she found out, she naturally took the best possible care of herself. The baby was born only a few days early, was a teensy bit small (just under 6#), but healthy and happy, growing and developing perfectly. A perfect start would be great, but not all babies get a chance for a perfect start. This pregnancy has every chance of ending with a warm bundle in your arms, complete, with working vocal cords!
   — vitalady

October 16, 2004
I got pregnant about 6 weeks after my WLS. I was 13 weeks along when I found out. I thought the being tired,no cycle, and getting sick was due to my surgery. During my early pregnancy I had an Upper GI while I was pregnant (didnt know at the time) and took Welbutrin and Effexor. I only gained 22lbs during my pregnancy and lost all of it 2 weeks after givin birth to a healthy baby girl. Ihad my WLS 7/14/03,start weight of 243lbs and now 5 months after giving birth weigh 148lbs. Not too bad considering most of my first year was spent pregnant. This was the easiest pregnancy I ever had,I al ready have a 13yr & 11yr old (The Lord has a sense of humor lol) . The only thing I had to do different was take 2 prenatal vitamins a day. Good Luck to ya.
   — badkidzmom

October 18, 2004
I do not want to get into the choice debate this isn't the plave for that (but I am proud to be a former pro-choice now pro-life due to my growing faith), but I did want to let you know that although the rx and procedures are not things that would be chosen to do on a pregnant woman they were early enough that they shouldn't cause to much problems. Most women don't know they are pregnant until they are 4-6 weeks and often have or do things that are not "ideal". Please don't let the "possiblities" make your decision, but the facts and what you feel is right in your heart and soul!
   — Tricia S.




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