Question:
might make pre-op blush,question about affexor

This question makes me blush as I type it. Hope to get some responses though. Is there anyone that takes affexor that has had a decrease in their libido or is unable to climax? If you want to email me directly my email is [email protected]. Thanks!    — TheresaC (posted on February 12, 2003)


February 12, 2003
That happens A LOT with anti-depressant/anxiety meds. I would talk to your doctor about it and they might be able to give you something else.
   — fropunka

February 12, 2003
Anti depressants & sex . . . or lack thereof. I don't know about affexor, but I've been on Paxil for a few years now, and this old body has absolutely no interest in sex anymore.
   — lorien

February 12, 2003
Had the problem same with Prozac, but after a while my body adjusted to it and things are somewhat normal. But it was a very long and *frustrating* adjustment.
   — Karen R.

February 12, 2003
Most all antidepressants suppress libido. I've been on Paxil, wellbutrin, and now effexor. The least suppressive was wellbutrin for me but it sucked as an antidepressant in my case. I'm also VERY irritable when I'm depressed, it was like, " Honey, you are irritating me to death, just leave me alone, but hey...before you do, come over here and take off your clothes." LOL. Things are coming around with effexor, it just takes longer and is not as intense.
   — Carol H.

February 12, 2003
I have been on Welbutrin for about 18 months. I had an extreme boost in my libido when I started this medication. I can tell when I don't take it, that I am not as interested in sex. By not taking it, I mean if I forget a couple days. But, I have noticed that after surgery, I am not as interested as before. I am 2 weeks post-op and still taking the Welbutrin. I hope this changes back to how it was. I don't know about Effexor, but I do know some Psych docs won't give Prozac to women because of the decreased libido.
   — Kim DeHart

February 12, 2003
I don't know if you want the male perspective, but I have been on serzone, effexor, wellbutrin, ritalin and several other medicines for depression... wellbutrin is the only one that has had no detrimental effect in this area. Plus, when I switched off of effexor and serzone to other medicines I had nasty side effects (not sex related).
   — Tim W.

February 12, 2003
I have the same problem with Zoloft and it is frustrating!! which then makes "getting there" even harder!! My hubby has been very sweet about hanging in there...so too speak! lol. We did try the Niagara drink and it did increase the senses. You may want to try it...it's about $9.00 a bottle.
   — stixx456

February 12, 2003
Thanks for all the responses. I was on prozac many years ago. Great drug, but libido. lol I have been on zoloft, wellbutrin, celexa and affexor. Just started affexor. It is the best thing since prozac for me. I really dont know about the sexual side of it YET. I was just curious. wellbutrin did nothing for me PERIOD. I think I will stick with affexor till atleast a few months after surgery. I have mild depression. I take meds more for ocd, panic attacks and migranes. Anyway, thanks for the great responses. Makes a person think. :)
   — TheresaC

February 12, 2003
I also took Zoloft, it didnt seem to help for what I needed it for. I did not like how it lowered my sex drive.<p>I am now on Effexor XR and I love it! It has really helped my problem and it in no way affects my sex drive.<p>Good Luck to you! Mary
   — Merry I.

February 12, 2003
My DH was taking this a few months ago and was totally unable to climax at all. He went off it and all has been fine since. The DR. said it "depresses" your nervous system and blocks climax for some people. They are working on a coated version of it that dissolves in your small intestine instead of stomach, which alleviates the problem completely, but it is not quite ready yet I believe.. :) Hope this helps!
   — Amy S.




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