scared of the choice to have surgery..how to over come it?

i know in my heart this is the way to go. i am 31 married almost 14 years and have 3 beautiful children ages 11 months to 8. we are not having any more!! any way food has really run my life always has and if i dont do something about it, it always will. i have been at 235 for a year now. i have not been dieting, just watching what i eat, and nothing. i know what scares me the most is being in the hospital, and the pain after and not really knowing how life will be day to day when i have the surgery, if i have it. i can read and read about what every one felt afet theirs but i know it is different for all. but what about the feeling torn issue, do i just do it, because i know i need it, but then there is the long term health issue...can i deal with the side effects, or will i be one of the lucky ones and not have any! i really would like to go to a support group, but the closest it 8 hours, so that it out. if any one can give info on what they went through please give it...

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