I've been fat my whole life; how do I be a

I have been fat my whole life, since I was 4 years old. 13 months ago, I had the RNY and I have since lost 177 lbs. I wouldn't consider myself skinny yet, but I'm definitely no longer fat. People no longer look at me. They used to look at me because I was different and form all sorts of opinions about me. Nowadays, I'm so ordinary, people just ignore me for the most part. This is extremely hard to adjust to. Anyone else having the same problem? I just don't feel special anymore. I feel so ORDINARY. When I was fat, at least people noticed me. Now, it's like they're looking right through me. How have you coped?

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