A question for all you fat and formerly fat chicks out there with hubbys...

boyfriends, significant others...How did it happen for you? I mean no disrespect with this question, but sometimes I get so depressed, thinking that I am destined to lead a lonely, loveless, sexless life, and I can't help but wonder what's wrong with me, besides the excess weight...I am pre-op, surgery soon, 250 lbs. I'm not under the illusion that men will come knocking once I'm thin, just curious how you all found love at (no offense) some really large weights...and please don't feed me the tripe about "It'll come when you least expect it..." I haven't been expecting it for years, and it still ain't come...thanks.

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