How do you feel about men/women post-op?

It's been 3.5 years since my daughters father and I split. I haven't had a date, kiss, hug or "relations" with anyone in time. As a matter of fact, I think my weight had a lot to do with my split up with my ex and I think it has a lot to do with my "DROUGHT" now. But, I'm worried about coming out of this surgery, slimming down, looking good and having the same men that ignored me and thought I was disgusting pre-op, fall at my feet post-op. I could definately see myself being angry...I don't want to be that way. Has anyone experienced this or are you experiencing it and what do you do? Thanks everyone!

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