People can be so ignorant...

Friends, My husband receive the following email from his ex-girlfriend last night, regarding me having surgery. I want to write her back, of course, but I'm turning to you guys to help me say the perfect things. Any ideas on what to say to her would be appreciated. "Some old HS friend sent me a link to this site randomly. Guess they found a journal that Kristy made while she underwent surgery. Tell her congratulations on her weight loss. I don't know how I feel about the surgery - part of me feels like it's definitely an easy way out. I wake up and go to the gym at 5:30am at least 4 times a week to lose weight - and she gets surgery and quickly sheds the pounds. I'm sure it took a mental toll on her, and it wasn't all easy work, but I'm sure it accelerated the process 1000%. Sorry, just my opinion. I know my opinion doesn't matter to you, but I felt I just had to address it. But in the long run, Kristy will be happier and healthier I'm sure. And that's all that really matters." ~Kristy (lap RNY 9/18/03 - 332/166)

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