Has anyone ever gained an extra 20 lbs so they qualify for the surgery?

I had my first visit with the Dr. today and he said I could not have the surgery unless I weighed 220 lbs. I weigh 196 and have sleep apnea ( I have a CPap) and about five other conditions that I take medications for. I have been over weight my entire life. And I am miserable. I have spent nearly $20,000.00 in the last 20 yrs on diets, weight equipment, and gyms and never have lost more then a few pounds. I was so depressed when I left the Dr.'s office today. I feel like a failure. Does any have any advise? Should I gain the extra weight or stay fat the rest of my life?

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