When does this get easier??? How did you make it through the first week??

I had my surgery on Monday--just five days ago--and even though I'm trying to be positive, some of the changes are starting to depress me. So far this week, I've had to listen to my family prepare and eat steak, McDonald's, and other heavenly smelling foods that I can't have...I'm still on the broth/clear liquids only diet for another week. My side hurts like h*ll, it's hard to get out of bed, the drain is sooooo, sooooooo gross, I've yet to have a normal BM (will I ever again?), and I've gone up *two* pant sizes since surgery. It's hard not to be depressed, because I haven't seen any positive changes yet. When do the positives start??!? Does the diet ever get easier? How long was it before you felt 'normal' again??? Do you have any suggestions or advice on how I can make this transition easier on myself?? Thanks!

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