Any post ops had their spouse leave them for an obese person?

Hi! Over two years ago when I had my surgery, my husband seemed very supportive. He told me to go for it. I lost most of the weight within the first year, and since the day I made it to where I feel thin, the badgering from him began. Everyday my husband would and still does, tell me that I think I'm better than everyone, that I hate fat people, he wishes I never got the surgery, I'm not the same person, etc etc... None of this is true. Yes I do have more self esteem, and my life has improved greatly because I'm active, and can breath, but overall, I feel that I am the same person as before, just thin. Well, today my husband informed me that he has been cheating on me with a very obese woman. He says she is who I used to be. I'm in total shock. I mean I knew he was not happy with the "new" me, but I never expected this. He even hoards (sp) old pictures of me before the surgery, I find them hidden in his drawers. Has anyone had this happen to them?

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