Need answer for mom's complaints about me having surgery

I can't take it. I knew my mom never really supported me having surgery, but has acted better than I expected. So she gives me the one line I have run out of answers to: "I hate that we can't talk about food like we use to, especially with the holidays coming up." I have let her know I still love to talk about food, and I love to cook. I have told her that I have just expanded my horizons to include healthier ways to prepare the same food, ie sugarless. Still she insists it isn't the way it use to be. (Was 10 weeks ago that much different than today?) What are some kind, loving, but DEFINATE answers to her? (She did sigh in jealousy(?) that I am down to 215#) Thanks for your answers.

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