Anyone Lose Weight and Then Lose Friends?
Since I've lost all my weight, I find that my sister and my best friend are having a hard time dealing with what they call the "new me." I know I have changed. I used to be very shy and now I am not. I feel so much better about myself. I now take more time with my appearance. Things like getting my hair done, instead of just pulling it back in a ponytail and wearing makeup. I buy more revealing clothes, short skirts and low cut tops. I get a lot of male attention. Never had it in my life and I'm enjoying it. My sister calls it me "flaunting" my weight loss. I actually have to choose more conservative clothes to wear around her and my best friend. If I go out with them and attract male attention, they act irritated the rest of the day. Now that I have my breast implants which are a modest size c. My sister never misses an opportunity of commenting on my "fake peeps.". She even told her six year old daughter that they are fake and her daughter is so fascinated she is always feeling on them and asking questions about them. I don't want to have problems with my sister and my friend, but I want to be able to dress like I can now and flirt if I want without worrying about what they are thinking. I had this surgery to lose weight not friendships. Has this happened to anyone else? Any advice?
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