Worried Husband will try to sabotage, maybe subconsiously?

OKay, so as I look towards insurance approval i get worried. (Married three years May 6th, with 2 beautiful little girls.) My husband it tired of hearing about this surgery, yet he won't let me tell him how my life will change and how it may affect our family. (He really hasn't let me talk to him much about this at all, thinks he knows it all) SO here is a bit of history. Oct 2001 I had gallbladder removal. They day after I came home he insisted I didn't cook (that was nice) but also insisted we go to Burger King (not so nice). I didn't know this was a bad thing. I stupidly ate and became very sick. (Ran through me like water) Still to this day he insists we eat there occasionally but I avoid what makes me sick. (Anything they fry, including the chicken) My question? What do I do if he insists on going out immediatley post op? I know I will NOT be able to eat. How can I get him to understand? More importantly, how can I get him to listen? I don't know if he is doing this oturight, or subconsiously. He fears change, and I think he may try to sabotage my efforts.Any suggestions would be extremely welcomed.

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