I haven't told my family and only a couple of friends, why?

My surgery is less than 2 weeks and I have not told my kids, my mother or brother. I have told a couple of friends only. I am not sure why I feel this way. I think I am ashamed I have to do something this drastic to lose weight. I know that is stupid. I want people to admire how much weight I will have lost and think wow she really has a lot of will power. I know I have to tell my kids, but I don't want to them to worry. Thought about telling the day after or so.

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