HOw do we reassure family?

I cried from a broken heart yesterday when my oldest sweetest son ducked hishead to avoid me see his tears. my 2 boys are so afraid I will die from this surgery. Even as I write this I have a knot in my throat and tears in my eyes, how do we assure our love ones about the surgery. I feel so ashamed of myself and selfish for not being able to do this on my own. My surgery is in 15 days and I know without a doubt I have to do this.( A man 6 blocks down died in his home of a hear attack yes obesity was the cause) I just don't know how to handle this. Help if you can.

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