Am I Wrong\ havent told fiance I had WLS

I am engaged and I have never told my fiance' I've had weight loss surgery. I told him I've lost weight and he knows I've had plastic surgery to remove skin because of the weight loss. He was with me during my last plastic surgery. He knows I have implants because of so much weight loss. He knows I've had surgery on my stomach because he sees the scar and I also talk about it. I'll say after my surgery, but I don't say weight loss surgery. He knows I've been fat because he sees the stretch marks, some pictures and I talk about it a lot. He knows I'm supposed to limit sugar and about my dietary supplements. I don't hide any of that from him, I just find it hard to come out and say I've had weight loss surgery. The other day I read a book by Dr. Laura about stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships and the first was keeping stupid secrets. It made me feel guilty. I do want him to know. I know he would not leave me if he did know. I just don't want to make a big production over it and also to be honest, I do find it hard to tell him. Any advice or opinions? Is my not telling him wrong?

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