Question on dating & Intimacy

I'm about eight months out and I've lost 130 pounds. I look good in clothes, but undressed I am a wreck. The problem is I'm not married and I wasn't in a long term relationship prior to surgery. Now I have been seeing a guy for a while and it seems time to advance to the next step of intimacy and I find I can't do it because of the way I look undressed. I think I could handle it if it was just the sagging skin, but my breasts are in terrible shape! Not just sag, but I am down to an A cup and they just look deflated balloons. I know a boob job is in my future, but what until them? I haven't told him about the WLS. I've just said I've lost a lot of weight recently. I'm now looking for excuses to break it off, because of this and just not get involved with anyone else until the boob job. Please help! Any advice? Anyone else going through this?

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