How do you know if attention is positive or negative?

Recently, I was at the mall with my DH and noticed several times that there was some attention directed at me. However, I can't really tell if it was good or bad. I almost wanted to go up to them and ask. Two guys walked by me, and I overheard one of them say"Damn." I'm so used to the negative attention that being MO brings, I felt myself hiding back inside my shell, and I immediately put my coat back on(I had on clothes that actually fit size 7 pants and a cardigan sweater) Peoples say I'm skinny, but I can't see it. My DH says I don't ned to lose anymore, but I'd like to get to 125. Please help!!!!! Donna in AL

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