My husband is afraid that I'll leave him.

I told my husband about WLS in August of this year, and I don't think that he really believed me. In late Sept I said forget it because I read the memorial. Well early Oct I was looking again and mid Nov had a consult. He never thought that I'd get approved for the surgery and now that my surgery date is just 3 days away he's now saying that he won't be able to get used to the fast weightloss. I told him that because I'm on the lighter side I'll loose slower. Last night he told me that I was not going to be the same Heather. When I met him I weighed 145lbs back in 1993, an dnow 245. How has anyone delt with there husbands? Or husbands how did you feel about your wife going through with the surgery? thanks. I thought that I had a strong marriage, but I can't deal with being fat forever and I think that he wants me that way . I'm so confused... Heather

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