I know that the focus of this surgery is about health, but....

I was wondering if we can count the perks as well, and maybe answer a question for me. I don't know if it is depression setting with me on an emotional roller coaster or if it is true or not, but I truly feel as if my boyfriend really doesn't want to make love to me anymore. I am lucky if we are intimate 1-2 times a month!!! he says it has nothing to do with me, that he just isn't interested in it as much as when he was young, but I can't help but think it has something to do with how big I have gotten. Honestly, I wouldn't want to be intimate with me either!!! Has anyone felt this way, or has experienced this, and is it likely that this will change after surgery?? I would love it we could be more active (even just a little more active). Anyone gone through this with their spouses??

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