why am i feeling guilt about losing weight????

the day i found out i got approved for surgery was also the night my girls had girl scouts. i hadn't told anyone i was even thinking about having wls because i wanted to keep my medical information to myself. well....... i was so excited because i just had found out i got approved and i told 2 of the other mothers (one is MO the other wasn't at the time) that i was going to have it done. the MO mom said "ohhhhh god why would you want to do something like that" and the normal sized mom was very nice and asked alot of questions about it because her my is very MO. since that day i have lost 130 pounds. the MO mom always asks questions and smiles to my face, but she is rude in the way she asks her questions. kinda like she is waiting for me to fail or something. the other mom that was normal sized when i had surgery is now 50 pounds heavier and won't even say hello. before i told them i was having surgery they would even search me out to talk with me,but now that i am smaller than they are they act different. my question is why do i feel guilty because i have lost weight. why do i feel like i have wronged them because i weight less than they do? i even wore baggy clothes on purpose the last time i saw them. i'm still 15 pounds from goal which would put me right in the middle of the bmi chart for my height and weight. i'm not a stick woman by any means. why do i feel guilty? have any of you felt this way?

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