It has just come to my attention that a family member AND a friend have

called my husband "just to make sure that I am eating enough". I posted last week about people saying how thin I look, but I want to lose about 5 more pounds (not trying to lose, but if it happens, great) I am now trying to increase my food intake, (it is miserable, I HATE feeling full now), but I am really offended by this. I understand the friend (she has NEVER seen me lower than 220 lbs.), but this really hurts me. I am NOT too thin, I am 5'4" I weigh 252 lbs. and I wear medium tops and size 8 pants. My husband has been asking me constantly - have you eaten yet, or what did you eat today. I know that they love me, but this really makes me hurt. Are they jealous or do I really look to thin!? I really need some advice on this, maybe someone around my size could send me some before and after pics. Today at the club someone said that I looked like I weigh about 115-120. I just don't get it! (By the way I do have an appointment set up for Thurs. this week to start seeing a therapist, all these comments like this are making me feel crazy! People who did not know me before the weight loss say that I look 'normal' not 'too thin'. Thanks in advance for all the help! PS I looked in the library, but this is a tricky topic name and couldn't find anything about this)283.5/152/145-150

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