Help I have created a monster!

My wife had surgery some time ago and has done very well having lost over 100 pounds. While she was ill and MO her abilities to do stuff detoriated. I took on all the housework and did it not happily but because she just sadly wasnt able. Cleaning, cooking, laundry its all my job <P> I figured that once she got feeling better we would share these jobs as I shared them before her health detoriaed. Whats worse she has gotten critical of how well I do these jobs. I dont mind doing most of the work but am unhappy with her attitude and have suggested marriage counseling. I love my wife very much but fear the resentment I am building over the situation. This truly could lead to divorce. Has anyone else had this problem and any ideas how I can deal with it? Signed a unhappy confused hubby. Needless to say Sam isnt my real name.

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