How do i stop comparing myself to other skinny women???

Ok, I have now successfully made it down to 139 lbs. but have several issues with my self image. I find myself comparing my body to EVERY woman my fiance might take a look at. He has no intention of anything and its not rude and nobody would notice but the crazy woman at his side trying to fight the jealously that he would even wnat to look at another woman. I talk myself right into the whole "he is still searching for the right one" attitude and its not helping me. I dont see myself as small until I actually see a picture of myself and realize that I am one great chick, although fully clothed. Please help me put my mind at ease -- should i point it out to him? I know this is my issue and dont want him to feel the stress when its really harmless on his part. Thanks for the help guys! Kerry LAP RNY -- 4/22/03, -135 lbs.

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