What if someone who I inspired to have surgery dies?

I am Wanda Smarts angel. Me and Jen had a nice dinner with Wanda and Jack some months ago. She had previously backed out of surgery, but once we had dinner she said I was her inspiration to go ahead with surgery. Hers was yesterday, and she is having a rough time and is in intensive care with bleeding and breathing problems, but her vitals are OK. Please pray for her and me. If she dies how do I live with myself? Has anyone else had this occur? I worried a LOT about this with Jen, and somehow never gave this possiblity much thought. This isnt worded well sorry, I am totally strung out.

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