My post op wife is not complaint! We both have WLS

I had surgery months ago and am doing well. My wife is a few weeks post op and ignoring the rules and depressed. Not drinking enough liquids, refuses to take vitamins, sleeping 18 hours a day, doesnt want to leave the house to get some exercise, even walking thru a mall is a big irritant to her. She lost 13 pounds in 10 days and is unhappy:( Regrets surgery. Anyones spouse been like this and how do you cope? She is in the hospital and will be lucky to get out for christmas. ME? I am so frustrated, I want a happy healthy wife. I have told her surgeons staff whats up, and called her PCP and therapist for appointments.

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