I am having the RNY surgery, I am single. I have always wanted to be

married. I am doing this for my health cos I am 350 pds, not to get a man. My question to everyone is this, I have not been out with many guys in my life, maybe 3. Two of them ended up being gay. Anyway, my family and a few friends, have told me being fat is why I haven't had anyone, (I have a great personality, outgoing, friendly, sweet). Have any of you experienced not having someone because of being fat? I am doing this so I can be healthy and live a long life with my family and friends but I just wondered if anyone else has experienced lonliness because of being fat? I have a lot of great, good friends.

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