Marriage in the dumps?

My marriage was having problems even before the surgery...I have made some bad choices in that direction. I thought maybe having a baby would help...It made it worse...Not that I would ever REGRET my daughter b/c I don't, but it just made more responsibility for me in the marriage. I am miserable and very unhappy. I love my husband but I am not in love with him. So what do I do now? I want to leave. And now I feel it may be because if my new found self esteem. I never felt i was good enough for anyone and ,even though it makes me a terrible person, I feel i settled for what I thought was the best i could do. He is a great father and i know he loves me, but I want to be happy for once. Anyone else have these feelings or any advice? Stacy

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