My boyfriend does not have any kids

But I have 4. He wants 2 of his own but I am not sure that I want to have anymore kids especially after having this surgery and losing the weight I have already lost. I really love this guy but not sure I am able to give him what he wants. I have talk to my surgeon who said that I can have kids about 18 months down the line, I just don't think that I would want to have any kids if I get to my goal weight. I also don't want to lose this guy either. He is wonderful to my kids and cares for them as if they were is own and he has told me that he would even adopt my kids after we marry, but would like to have biological kids of his own. Am I being selfish to this guy because I am choosing my weight over having his kids? 10 weeks post-op -43lb

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