Will men look at me differently once the weight is gone?

My surgery will be in April and I have a fear that men that didn't notice me will all of a sudden notice me, Has this happened to anyone before? I don't feel like I would want the attention from someone who did not notice me one bit when I was overweight. The reason why I am asking is because during my phsyc eval the DR told me that men tend to look at you more in a sexual manner and your thought of as an object than as a person. I really would hate to meet someone that shallow.

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