Need suggestions on what to say at Thanksgiving.

I am fiercely private about my surgery. No one at work or school knows about it. Only my family. I don't want anyone to know. It is easy enough to blow off a waiter at a restaurant and say "I've already eaten" or "I'm not real hungry" or "I've just had tummy surgery." But this year, my guy and I are going to have Thanksgiving with some friends. I don't know what to say to people when they see me eating just a few bites, along with losing 100 pounds. I would appreciate any suggestions or excuses. I am really getting myself worked up over this for no good reason.

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