How to handle social situations 3 1/2 weeks after surgery

I am on the verge of not attending a close-knit yearly school reunion weekend. It will be at a friend's home and about 14 other people will be there. We've always been the partying type and that's how the reunions go. But here I am 3 1/2 weeks post op and I have no plans to tell anyone about the surgery. I have thought of telling the hostess in advance that I'm on a strict diet so that she won't be surprised. Has anyone had this happen so early post op?

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