anyone have a spouse who uses your weight as an excuse to call you lazy?

so many of you seem to have positive, supportive spouses, i wonder if anyone has a spouse who thinks because you are fat you are lazy and worthless. or who rejects any sort of physical contact, including hugs or even a pat on the back for support? do you advocate leaving, or sticking it out until things get better? i will DEFINITELY be having this surgery for me, not him, but i resent this treatment and wonder if anyone else has the same situation? love ya all! darci

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