Where are all the MEN???

This site has been extremely helpful, but it is posted by about 99% women. I need to hear from men who have gone through the procedure. How hard was it to lose (RNY)? What did it do for your career? What did it do for your marriage? I need to lose about 130-150. Any advise you can give would be helpful!

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