How do I make my husband understand?

I started looking to having surgery while we were stationed in Turkey. My husband really never said anything about it. We found out that we were returning to the states so I dicided to wait. Now that we are here and I have found a surgen and have an apt. my husband told me he does not what me to have it. All he says what if something goes wrong. I do not want to fight over something like this. I am not trying to be thin like the pictures in the papers I just want to be healthy. I have 4 children, 2 that are 12, 1 is 5, and the last one is 3. I feel like I can not play and run with them. I want that so much. Can anyone give me any sugestions on how to make my husband understand.

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