Sex after surgery

Okay, I know this is may sound really awful to some of you...but here it is.... My husband and I have had almost NO sex during the entire 11 years we've been married. If I'm thin - or if I'm fat (and I've been both - size 14-28)...no sex. Now I'm getting the surgery and plan to lose the weight once and for all. AND, I plan to enter into a relationship with someone after surgery for the purpose of fun and sex. (Please, I don't need the judgement - you're not in my shoes -- so, if you are going to preach, don't respond). My question is this: how did you feel about getting naked with someone new after surgery? I'm especially concerned about sagging skin, etc. PLEASE tell me your experience -- and how you handled it... THANK YOU. (P.S. lest you be concerned about my spouse - dont'. He doesn't have to work, he has plenty of "toys" (cars, etc.) and knows what he's got.)

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