I'm hoping to have RNY and I'm afraid of starting relatioships after surgery.

I am still waiting for approval my insurance company. I am 26 years old and weight 450lbs. I've been seeing someone platonically for over 2 years and we have reached a standstill in our relationship. I'm still planning to have surgery but am afraid to trust anyone to want to be with me the person, not me the thin person, including the above mentioned friend. Does anyone have any advice for me? I've always dreamed of a family (husband and kids), but I'm afraid that I'll end up with someone who doesn't really love the "real" me. I'm alreay in love with my "friend" but I'm not sure where he stands.

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