My husband is finding it very hard to be supportive

My husband is finding it very hard to be supportive to me in my decision about wls. Im so upset and depressed already that this is just adding to it. He feels that if I really wanted to lose weight that I wouldn't need surgery. I should just be able to lose weight like everyone else. The problem is that I have been obese all of my life and on a million diets. I have never been successful and I am tired... He just doesn't seem to understand and I feel like I need his support. But in arguements when he says that I could do it if it was that important to me I just can't seem to put it in words that I can't. I need some good arguements any suggestions....

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