18 months post op -down 157lbs and family is driving me crazy

I had my gbladder out last Thursday and due to sore throat I have been eating nothing but sugar free ice pops-and I mean like going through a box in a day and a half. My grandmother has said certain things to me in the past about my weight and I've told her in the past before WLS surgery to stop hounding me about it-Now that I've lost so much weight she is constantly asking me can people gain the weight back and I answer her questions-Then I ask her why do you think I am gaining weight back or something I treat myself on occasion and sometimes over do it the week be4 my period, but all I've been eating is sugar free ice pops and pretzels, protein shakes anything that will go down easy-I was really pissed off when she told me If i kept eating sugar free pops they would make me gain weight-I'm like What-I knew where she was going with it like I hope you are eating right to not gain all that weight back-I'm 23 and things she says still gets under my skin-I've tried ignoring it or yelling sometime for her to back off and mind her business-I LOVE my grandmother to death but this really bothers me about her and I've been dealing with it all my life because I was always a heavy kid-now it looks like I'm dealing with it again -Like i don't want her to know what I'm eating or anything-Anyone else going through family I guess being too supportive and judgemental????HELP

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