Did I open a can of worms?

Oh my...I think my question opened a big can of worms. I do love my husband dearly and in no way am I looking for anything outside my marriage. I do value my husband's feelings and would in no way hurt him. My husband has co-workers who are female that he takes to lunch(they work for him) on their job anniversaries. They come to our house w/ their spouses for cookouts, 4wheeler rides(which he takes them on) and I am very secure in the fact that he considers them friends and comes home to me. He even goes out of town and goes to dinner with a mixture of men and women, but I know he is coming home to me. I just think that I should be able to have a conversation with a man w/o feeling like he is watching over my shoulder waiting for me to slip up or blow something out of proportion that is not there. We have had alot of problems in the past, but that is what it is, the past and he knows that I am not going anywhere(if I wanted to I would have been gone along time ago). So am I not allowed the trust that I give him when he goes out to lunch and out of town?

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