How can Friends be so immature & jealous of my success & now hate me?

3 of my friends now hate me! On New Years Eve me and my new boyfriend went to my friends apt (by the way age may be a factor, we're all around 21-22 yrs old) and my friend told us we could not hold hands or make out b/c she didn't have anyone to do that with. A couple days later she left a voicemail on my phone cursing me out b/c i "disrespected" her b/c me & my b/f we're kissing when the ball dropped etc... then i called her back and she proceeds to tell how they are all sick of me and my weightloss, b/c i talk about it. She said they are happy for me, but say I don't need to rub it in that i am now thinner than them. I don't feel like i've done this at all. I told her that I apologize for "disrespecting" her but i don't think i was out of line. And told her she was acting very jealous by the things she was saying. Then they all got my words mixed up- and thought i was trying to tell them to have the surgery too.. which i never ever said!! Then they basically told me to go where the sun don't shine and hung up. Why are they acting like this??? They have been my friends for 7yrs and i have never had a fight with any of them. It makes me so mad. Thank you for letting me vent some.. Post op 6mos (today!) start weight: 262, Now weight: around 165, size 12's Thank you everyone

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